Life is not as easy as some people seem to think it is. We start out as innocent, naive little children with the hopes that our parents will take on the responsibility of helping us grow into responsible, respectable adults in a world that is already screwed up. Some of us don't have the same childhoods. Some are tougher than others, but in the end no one has an ideal life. Everyone has problems and issues that we think no one else has. But guess what, no one is ever 100% happy.
Some people spoil there kids and do everything for them but those kids won't know what to do with themselves once their parents aren't there anymore or they may pass their responsibilities onto other family members and friends. They may not have the unconditional love that children need due to purchases made from their parents in hopes that it will make up for not being around or not being able to show their love through spending actual time with their children. These children will grow up dependent on those around them and always seeking out love with materialistic things. Not every person is the same however I think most will become what their parents have created, needy, dependent, irresponsible adults.
Other people are always trying to work to achieve what they want in life. It's harder for them to get to where they would like to be however at least they try. I believe these people are more appreciative of their earnings because they had to work so hard to get to that point of achieving their goals. However there are also those who just feel like giving up because its too hard to get what they want or possibly they have to much pride to admit that they need help. These people with so much pride in nothing, piss me off.
If you need help, get help. There is no reason in the world that you should just sit around and let other people clean up the mess that you created.
I've learned in this world, no one will help you completely get what you want but YOURSELF.
For example, if you have a kid that you weren't expecting, take responsibility and get a job to support your child and yourself. If you live at home you shouldn't think that your parents will just pick up the mess that you created and if they do then they're stupid. You were responsible enough to sleep with someone to get the kid knowing the risks involved and now its your responsibility to take care of this new innocent child. This is where todays parents mess up. People are having kids younger and younger and aren't taught how to take care of themselves let alone an innocent child. These people disgust me. Knowing that our world is filled with people who make messes and expect other people to clean it up.
Another example, if you're unemployed, instead of sitting on the couch all day watching TV or on the computer, look for a job. The longer you are unemployed the more you will not want to go back to work because you're scared you wont be able to do the job correctly. Some people go into depression which is understandable but the only one that can get you out of that depression is YOURSELF.
Friends and family will only get you so far. You are the only one who knows your wants and needs. Your the only one who can do what you want exactly how you want it. You have to be strong and force yourself to make the first steps into achieving your goal. Unless your goal is to just keep being a bum and letting other people do your dirty work, then you should feel ashamed of yourself. No one likes to clean there own mess let alone someone else's. Grow up and open your eyes.
Take responsibility for your actions and mishaps.